Ajibola Oladiipo

Patience and Power

I have walked that long road to freedom. I have tried not to falter; I have made missteps along the way. But I have discovered the secret that after climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb.
~ Nelson Mandela


I.

There is a form of power that announces itself immediately. It moves quickly, strikes decisively, and makes its presence felt in ways that leave no room for ambiguity. It is the kind of power that registers as strength in the moment it is exercised, and it has a particular appeal in institutional environments where public frustration is high and the pressure to act is visible and urgent. I have felt the pull of this kind of power. I know what it looks like from the inside. I know the instinct to terminate, to confront, to resolve through force of will what the slower institutional route seems to leave unresolved for longer than anyone is comfortable with.

There is another form of power. It does not announce itself. It is not immediately visible as strength, and in the moments when it is most necessary, it can be difficult to distinguish from its counterfeit, which is not patience at all, but the avoidance of confrontation dressed in the language of strategic restraint. This form of power requires something that the first form does not. That is the willingness to remain in doubt about your own motives, to keep asking whether you are being genuinely strategic or merely protecting yourself from the friction of a difficult decision, and to continue choosing the slower route not because it is comfortable but because the evidence, honestly examined, suggests it is more likely to produce something durable.

This reflection is about that second form of power. About what it costs, and what it produces, and why the distinction between strategic patience and its counterfeit is one of the most important and most difficult that serious institutional work requires.

II.

During the months I spent building the evidentiary case against an underperforming private service provider in Oyo State, I did not experience the waiting as wisdom. It was intense pressure. It is of utmost importance to highlight that this provider was one whose political connections made the immediate termination of their contract a more complicated proposition than the operational failures alone would have warranted.

Service failures continued during those weeks. Waste went uncollected. Public complaints accumulated. The frustration of citizens who were entitled to a service they were not receiving was real and visible, and I was in a position that made me, in the perception of the public and of my institutional superiors, at least partially responsible for the gap between what was promised and what was being delivered. The questions came from higher levels of the operation. These kinds of questions you know do not request an explanation so much as they communicate an expectation. They boxed me into the frame of decision while I was holding the full weight of the political implications of acting inside that frame too quickly.

The internal pressure in those moments was too intense. These were coupled with genuine episodes of doubt. There were moments when the slower route felt less like strategic intelligence and more like hesitation. When I asked myself, with more urgency than theoretical reflection permits, whether patience was actually the right instrument here, or whether I was using the language of strategy to avoid the discomfort of a confrontation I was not certain I could win. Restraint, in environments where public frustration is visible, can be read as weakness. It can also, if you are honest with yourself, feel like weakness, particularly when the alternative is available and the instinct to use it is strong.

What sustained the decision to continue was not certainty. It was a specific analytical judgment about what terminating the contract prematurely would produce. Not the outcome I wanted, but a different outcome. One in which the political connections of the provider, activated by a move they had been given no procedural grounds to contest, would redirect the conflict from the contract to the person challenging it. The reform would survive the first move only to collapse under the second. The slower route was not comfortable. But it was the route that pointed toward something that would last.

III.

The distinction I am trying to describe between patience as strategic intelligence and patience as avoidance is one that no external observer can make reliably. It can only be made from the inside, by the person holding the decision, and it requires a quality of self-examination that is genuinely difficult to sustain when the pressure to act is acute. The question is not whether you are being patient. The question is what your patience is in service of.

Patience that is actively gathering evidence, strengthening the institutional case, mapping the actors whose alignment will be required, and preparing the ground so that when the moment to move arrives, the move can be made quickly and credibly is a form of power. It is slow power, unglamorous power, power that will not be visible to anyone who is watching for the conventional signs of decisive action. But it is power that compounds over time, because it is building something that the immediate alternative would have undermined.

Patience that is in service of self, that is deferring a difficult decision because the confrontation is uncomfortable, managing the appearance of strategic restraint while actually waiting for someone else to make the decision or for circumstances to resolve the problem without requiring personal risk, is not patience at all. It is a performance of it. And the performance, over time, does something corrosive to the person performing it. It teaches them to mistake the avoidance of difficulty for the exercise of judgment, and eventually they lose the ability to tell the difference.

The tension between doubt and discipline that I carried through those months of documentation was, I now understand, not a weakness in the process. It was integral to it. It forced me to keep interrogating my own motives. To keep asking whether the slower route was serving the reform we intended or serving my comfort. To ensure that patience remained an instrument rather than a refuge. That interrogation was uncomfortable. It was also the only honest way to do the work.

IV.

Nelson Mandela spent twenty-seven years in imprisonment. That fact is so well known that it risks becoming abstracted from what it actually meant at the human level. Think of the decades of confinement, the sustained uncertainty about whether the movement he had helped to build would survive, the knowledge that the political transformation he had committed his life to might not arrive in his lifetime. What is less often examined is the quality of strategic intelligence that the years of waiting produced, and the specific form it took when the moment of consequence arrived.

Mandela emerged from Robben Island not simply patient but analytically prepared. He understood the institutional conditions of the transition better than many who had been free to observe them continuously. He understood that durable political transformation in South Africa required the participation of the institutions that had sustained apartheid. It was not their destruction but their reformation, through a negotiated process in which they had sufficient stake to sustain the outcome that mattered. A man who had every moral justification for a posture of maximalist confrontation chose instead the slower architecture of negotiated transition, because he had used the years of waiting to understand what durable change in that specific institutional environment would actually require.

Deng Xiaoping’s reform of the Chinese economy after 1978 reflects a different but structurally similar discipline. The gradualism of the approach which you will see in special economic zones as experimental containers for market mechanisms before their wider application, agricultural decollectivisation preceding industrial reform, the sequencing of changes in a way that allowed the institutional system to absorb each adjustment before the next was introduced, was not timidity. It was a sophisticated reading of what the system could absorb and when. The reforms that reshaped China’s economic architecture over the following decades were not forced through the system. They were introduced into it at a pace the system could sustain, by a man who understood the difference between the rate of change that his own conviction preferred and the rate of change that the institutional environment would permit without collapsing under the pressure.

The trajectory of Bola Ahmed Tinubu in Nigerian politics offers a more proximate and more contested illustration of the same underlying discipline. After reverses in national politics, Tinubu withdrew from the immediate contest, rebuilt his political base, and spent years constructing the coalition that would eventually give him the political weight his ambitions required. He played a decisive role in the emergence of Muhammadu Buhari as president in 2015. That was a contribution that was itself a form of patient institutional investment, building the credibility and the political debts that a longer game would require. His eventual emergence as president in 2023 was not a sudden development. It was the delayed arrival of a process that had been underway for years, through forms of work that were not always visible as the accumulation of power but were precisely that.

Across these three very different careers and contexts, the underlying structure is consistent. Power was not expressed through immediate action. It was built through the sustained preparation of institutional conditions. Through coalition construction, evidential accumulation, strategic sequencing, and the discipline of moving only when the system was capable of absorbing the move without reversing it. In each case, the waiting was not inactivity. It was the most consequential work being done.

V.

The reforms that fail most visibly in institutional environments are usually not the ones that lacked technical merit. They are the ones that were introduced before the institutional conditions for their survival were in place. A policy that is analytically sound but politically premature will generate the resistance that defeats it and, in doing so, will make the next attempt at the same reform harder because the institution has now organised its defences around the specific form the reform took, and the advocates of reform have expended the credibility that a subsequent attempt would have required.

I have seen this pattern in food systems work, in governance reform, in supply chain interventions that produced measurable short-term change and then were not sustained because the institutional relationships that would have held them in place had not been built before the intervention was launched. In each case, the failure was not analytical. The problem was correctly diagnosed. The solution was correctly designed. The failure was in the timing and sequencing, in the absence of the patient preparatory work that would have created the conditions for the solution to survive contact with the institutional environment it was entering.

This is what multi-stakeholder work in the Nigeria Food Security Project and the SPRiNG Programme taught me about the relationship between timing and institutional change. Moving too early in those environments like introducing a policy change before the stakeholders whose alignment it required had been brought to a sufficient level of shared understanding would not have accelerated the change. It would have collapsed it. The work of building that shared understanding, of managing the different risk tolerances and incentive structures of actors whose cooperation the reform needed, of preparing the intellectual and administrative groundwork so that when the proposal was formally introduced it could move quickly because the slow work had already been done, that work was invisible to anyone measuring progress by the speed of formal decision-making. It was also the only work that mattered.

VI.

There is a question that the argument of this essay raises and that I want to address directly, because I think it is the most important question and the one most frequently avoided. If patience is a form of power, and if the discipline of strategic restraint is one of the most important competencies that serious institutional work requires, what distinguishes it from the long patience of people who waited and prepared and never moved — who accumulated the evidence and built the coalitions and prepared the ground, and then found that the moment of consequence never arrived, or arrived and passed before they were positioned to use it?

The honest answer is that there is no guarantee. Strategic patience is not a formula that produces outcomes reliably. It is a discipline that increases the probability of durable change by ensuring that when the institutional conditions for change are present, the person attempting the change has the evidence, the relationships, the credibility, and the procedural standing to move effectively. It does not create those conditions. It prepares the person to use them when they appear.

What it requires, beyond the patience itself, is the capacity to read institutional conditions accurately. To distinguish between the moment when the system is not yet ready and the moment when it will never be readier, and to have the courage to move at the second moment even though the first moment has already trained you in the habits of restraint. That is perhaps the most difficult transition that patient institutional work demands: knowing when the preparation is complete and the waiting has become its own form of avoidance.

I have not always made that transition well. There have been moments when the discipline of preparation extended beyond what the situation required, when the habit of waiting, which had been learned in conditions that genuinely demanded it, persisted into conditions that were asking for something different. Those moments have been instructive in their own way. They have taught me that patience is not a posture to be adopted permanently but an instrument to be deployed with as much precision as the action it is deferring.

VII.

Power that is exercised prematurely tends to exhaust itself against the resistance of unprepared institutions. Power that is prepared through patient groundwork, through the accumulation of evidence and the construction of coalitions and the sequencing of interventions in a way the system can absorb, tends to move more quietly and more durably. It does not always arrive at the speed that ambition or public frustration would prefer. But it arrives at a depth that the faster alternative cannot reach because it has gone through the institution rather than around it, and has therefore changed something in the institution rather than simply changing something on its surface.

The months of documentation in Oyo State produced an outcome. Not a dramatic one. Not a visible exercise of decisive authority. The provider stepped aside through a process that left the institutional architecture intact and the procedural record clean. Nobody wrote about it. It did not produce the kind of resolution that announces itself as strength. What it produced was something more durable and, I think, more honest; a demonstration that the institutional process, worked through with rigour and patience and the willingness to sustain doubt about one’s own motives, is capable of producing accountability. That demonstration mattered. Not as a personal achievement, but as evidence deposited into the institutional memory of a system that needed it, that the slower route was worth taking.

That is the argument for patience as power. Not that it always wins. Not that it never costs more than the immediate alternative. But that the change it produces, when it produces change, is the kind that holds. And in systems as resistant and as consequential as the ones we are working within, that distinction is not a minor consideration. It is the whole point.

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